WHAT TRULY IS LOVE February 9, 2016 – Posted in: Everyday Living

I wrote the below 8th June 2009 and posted it on Facebook.




Love love love love love love love love
What truly is love?
People say love is kind, love is sweet, love is beautiful, love is everything good and even more.
Is that right? Or is that bullshit?
I say love is that which alters not when it all alteration finds, love is a constant orgasm!
Is that right or is that horseshit?
If love is all that and more, why does it fail? Why does it end? Why does it hurt?
Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime
Is love fiction or reality?
Or is love just but a moment thing?
‘Tis said of love that it sometimes goes, sometimes flies; runs with one, walks gravely with another; turns a third into ice, and sets a fourth in a flame: it wounds one, another it kills, one it may simply run mad!
To risk it or not to risk it???
How many say I love you today, and tomorrow they say I love you the other woman!
Always keep in mind…..
When a boy sweeps you off your feet, he’s in the perfect position to drop you on your ass
“A mighty pain to love it is, and ’tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain
Love wisely……


Fast forward to almost 7 years and 2 relationships later, i wish i had more insight to the great mystery that is Love. I guess its self explanatory when one compares Love to a constant orgasm; i mean at the most, a fantastic orgasm lasts how many minutes? How can we then expect ‘love’ to last for a lifetime?

I still have no personal firm definition of Love, it comes, it goes, it comes again and it goes again. I believe in Love but I realize by now that love is mostly a decision. The decision to accept an external being for who they are, to make their problems ours, to want to make them happy constantly, to find joy in their joy and to do ALL this and more EVERYDAY; once one party gets bored of doing this daily then…..

After all said and done; Love is beautiful; give it as much as you can and if you are ever lucky enough to receive it then cherish it and if for any reason it doesn’t last, you will always find love again in another vessel


Love & Light